Friday, August 14, 2009

If you need to be told ...

I am no longer the mushy-gushy girl I used to be. Everyone grows up and gets a bit more realistic eventually.

So when I see lists of suggestions given to men for how to make their 'women' feel special (or in this instance, how to make them 'swoon'), I can't help but feel that men shouldn't need to be told how to treat a woman. I am not bashing men here; I don't think women should need a handbook on how to make a man feel special either.


I feel like it's forced or faked if a man needs to heed suggestions from a magazine (especially a meathead mag like Men's Health --ugh ). I mean, check out some of these asinine ideas. Some aren't bad but sheesh. some are just stupid and/or insulting.

It really is the thought that counts ... but it's your OWN thought that counts. Not one borrowed from some narrow-minded space cadet magazine writer.